www.StrongMarriageNow.com – Having Marriage Problems? Marriage Counselor, Dr. Dana Fillmore, teaches couples two key skills that will improve your communication. Marriage Counseling Made Easy!
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We’re studying biological influences in social behaviour right now. We behave in different ways based on the stimulus in an environment, but regardless of that stimulus it has to go through the brain. That information is input into the brain, processed and encoded where you take that observation or what’s been perceived by the senses and you attached some meaning to it… either background knowledge related to the stimulus or a prior experience. You can find a value in that stimulus or have a memory that is similar. Based on whatever you’ve got for experience at that point, then, your resuting behaviour will be different from others, though somewhat expected in some situations. In watching this video last night on tv, though, I sat perched on the side of my couch watching and as wrapped up in the show as I was I was more shocked at how much of a physical reaction I had in watching it. I was sick to my stomach watching and realized I had huge, crocodile tears forming in my eyes. Now I knew this was all a set up, that it’s a simulated situation, and the input is very limited in this case… there’s no sense of touch or a physical closeness to the situation that would cause me to feel threatened or anxious but I felt it just the same. And why? Because when I encoded that information I was able to related it to other personal experiences where I’ve felt as threatened or conflicted in a moment. Now to share this with my students this morning, I anticipated that they may get …
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MrFall2006 says:
August 3, 2011 at 11:31 am (UTC 0)
@josua1 Try to have Bible reading with her, this is a good way of changing hearts and minds. What you are doing here is a good Idea, also; You must try every avenue. Good luck and may God bless. Good luck.
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josua1 says:
August 3, 2011 at 11:59 am (UTC 0)
can you help me she is 26 and really all you just said but even more too of other sad things!- we have been marriage for 5 years and got 3kids (as she wanted and demanded)
josua1 says:
August 3, 2011 at 12:08 pm (UTC 0)
my wife dont want to listen or try any of the help from anyone who tryed to work with us. she has a “easteneurope culture” and are very cold hearten women aswell as very musch all the sad word as you just descript!- (sorry for my bad english) allthougt i do my best of want we have been told she see nothing or refuse anything good from me!! -i ask her just a few hours ago “well what about in a 30years or so?” and she said “i have no idea” she said to that if we split up her family would beat me
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August 3, 2011 at 1:57 pm (UTC 0)
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StratagemBlue says:
August 3, 2011 at 2:10 pm (UTC 0)
As a woman, I can’t stand that “sensitivity” crap they talk about at the end. Yes, we can be emotional at times, but there are also plenty of men who are sensitive enough to pick up on the subtleties of relationships, family dynamics, and social interactions. I have to agree with TheRushingWind on this one — it is much harder for a man to approach a child than a woman.
anobstinateman says:
August 3, 2011 at 2:22 pm (UTC 0)
@dudefromlondon or maybe it’s ignorant followers are practicing it out of context.
Romanpagan says:
August 3, 2011 at 3:13 pm (UTC 0)
i wish i could help theis girls. for them to use Yong girls like that and say its gods work it just wrong
NinjaMan1700 says:
August 3, 2011 at 3:25 pm (UTC 0)
Poor girl forced in marriage like that to a very old man. Just think about it’s gross.
UnitedKorean says:
August 3, 2011 at 3:25 pm (UTC 0)
I know it is a family business and it is a family occassion and it is rude to intrude into their business, but at the same time, if the laws of USA are similar to that of Australia where I am from, (1) it is illegal to marry someone under 18; (2) it is illegal to marry someone against their will; (3) it is illegal to have sex with someone without consent; (4) it is illegal to have sex with someone under 16. In total, there were two counts of statutory offences and two counts of criminal offence
TheRushingWind says:
August 3, 2011 at 3:29 pm (UTC 0)
@mailmanforyou indeed. Sadly on at least one occassion, a man was afraid to help a child for that very reason. The child had escaped from preschool and wandered off. The child later died (by drowning I believe). If it wasn’t for women treating men the way they do when a man ia around a child, that wouldn’t have happened.
mailmanforyou says:
August 3, 2011 at 4:12 pm (UTC 0)
@TheRushingWind i never thought of that, but your point is valid.
blitzkaton says:
August 3, 2011 at 4:45 pm (UTC 0)
@TheRushingWind nah i wont get killed.im preety sure abt that.i had studied it in depth.i think you read it wrongly. and i wont leave my religion
TheRushingWind says:
August 3, 2011 at 4:48 pm (UTC 0)
@blitzkaton how can you be a Muslim when the very things you hate are part of your religion? You need to leave your religion (safely of course – the penalty for leaving is to be murdered) and speak out against it.
TheRushingWind says:
August 3, 2011 at 5:30 pm (UTC 0)
@mailmanforyou it doesn’t show women have more balls. Part of the problem IS women – even today you get, particularly in America, loads of women refusing to hire a male babysitter due to their paranoia – so the men in this situation may have been worried about looking like child molesters for approaching a child
TheRushingWind says:
August 3, 2011 at 6:30 pm (UTC 0)
The reason given for the women intervening more than the men is bull. The cold hard truth: so many people, particularly women, are paranoid about men, particularly in America – so due to that paranoia, it’s a lot more difficult for a man to help a child.
sjbpeace says:
August 3, 2011 at 6:43 pm (UTC 0)
First of all, not all Mormons practice polygamy, just one sect. Secondly, everyone has a different opinion on religion. No one is going to agree and I guess we have to live with that. There’s no point arguing over all this stuff because no ones gonna win. We could all be right or wrong. What matters is what we believe and that’s all we need to know.
veiwnownownow says:
August 3, 2011 at 7:25 pm (UTC 0)
Only 4 people.. 🙁 That’s really sad. This will help me remember to do something if i’m even in a situation like this. (or in anyone situation from this show.. )
epicseizurenow says:
August 3, 2011 at 7:51 pm (UTC 0)
@mailmanforyou I’m not an emotional girl but this makes me melt. And shows that men have more balls. What will we without men?
Yeah.. i will wait for when society accepts gender as a trivial thing and that no one is more superior. Women don’t have more balls, physically of course and metaphorically. The world is too random for superiority to exist. And if women werent here there would be no future, of course thats for both sides. Please consider that this is a fake and dont say anyone is better
mailmanforyou says:
August 3, 2011 at 8:42 pm (UTC 0)
Im not an emotional guy but this makes me melt. And shows that women have more balls. What will we without women?
blitzkaton says:
August 3, 2011 at 9:17 pm (UTC 0)
im a muslim.even though im allowed to marry 4.i wont forced a girl/lady/woman to marry me.it just wrong.it outrageous.!!!
CrystalBearer20 says:
August 3, 2011 at 9:20 pm (UTC 0)
@natosh187
I am 22 years old, and for 18 years I was a member of the LDS Church, not the one shown here, but the one founded by Smith. I have parted ways with the church, but ask me, even now, and I will tell you you will be hard pressed to find a church closer to the teaching of Jesus Christ than the Mormons. There’s a lot of bad people out there, and I’m not saying the base church is innocent. But what they teach is pure. The FLDS church shown here is LDS in name only.
BARNEYRAPEDME69 says:
August 3, 2011 at 9:52 pm (UTC 0)
@natosh187 Real Christian belief? that’s a bit odd, so far that’s the 234,895,234 idea of what a “REAL” Christian is, The bible is contradictory and full of shit, the fact that bronze age teachings are still popular at this day and age is beyond shocking
Mirirune says:
August 3, 2011 at 10:31 pm (UTC 0)
Dude this is pedophilia. 😐
blaqsoldier says:
August 3, 2011 at 11:27 pm (UTC 0)
Dress is old fashion..lol..Why can’t they leave people alone.
blaqsoldier says:
August 3, 2011 at 11:38 pm (UTC 0)
“The people that intervene are true heroes. In today’s society we call sports stars ‘heroes’ that is wrong.
These people are heroes becuase they stood up against others for what is right and were willing to risk their safety in doing so.
We need more people like these”
I agree with you 100%
huppu says:
August 3, 2011 at 11:56 pm (UTC 0)
Those three people are the real life superheroes and no one can’t deny it.
janitor300 says:
August 4, 2011 at 12:39 am (UTC 0)
@natosh187 Yeah but according to your “christianity” Jesus is a son of incest relationships, So who is the “perv” now, And i really hate to break the circle of ignorance sorrounding you head but the number is actually disputed.. some say 9 others 15 and as high as 20 to some other historians, It’s not clear how old was she.
Roarlover34 says:
August 4, 2011 at 1:05 am (UTC 0)
The people that intervene are true heroes. In today’s society we call sports stars ‘heroes’ that is wrong.
These people are heroes becuase they stood up against others for what is right and were willing to risk their safety in doing so.
We need more people like these
AdamIntellectual7 says:
August 4, 2011 at 1:29 am (UTC 0)
damn i feel sorry for the young women in those sects or whatever that dont have people to take them.